For the past several years, it’s been my privilege to observe and coach thousands of the brightest business consultants in the world. Over time, I’ve identified at least ten different behavioral cues advisors give that make it possible to sort the rookies from the pros.
All the advisors I’ve worked with have been smart, qualified, knowledgeable, experienced, and young for people with so much to offer. The overarching difference between the rookies and the pros, though, has been confidence. In short, rookies work hard to project confidence they don’t feel, and pros are lazier: they feel confidence, but don’t feel the need to show it. Whether the conversation with the client is face-to-face, over the phone, or in writing/cyberspace, for the rookie, it’s always about himself and his performance anxiety… am I really qualified to render advice to this older, more experienced executive? For the pro, who has survived the brutal gauntlet required to reach senior consultant or partner status (and the ripe old age of about 35), it’s never about her own performance, but about the client and his needs.








